Poem・詩集/ 我想

I want to love you without clutching;

appreciate you without judging;

join you without invading;

invite you without demanding;

leave you without guilt;

criticize you without blaming;

and help you without insulting.

我想愛你而不抓住你
欣賞你而不批判你
參與你而不會冒犯你
邀請你而不必強求你

離開你而不覺歉疚

批評你但並非責備你

並且幫助你而不羞辱你

If I can have the same from you,

then we can truly met
and enrich each other.

如果我也從你得到相同的
那麼我們的相會就是真誠的

而且能彼此潤澤

—家族治療大師維琴尼亞·薩提爾 (Virginia Satir)